Romantic Ways to Spark Up Your Love Relationship: Thirty-two Lovely Tips and Ideas
- Create a “LOVE” Message in Your Partner's Book:
If your partner loves reading books, take the current book he or she is reading, get a pencil and underline letters in a section or page not yet read to spell out a “LOVE” message.
For example in the following excerpt from a novel, the underlined letters come together to spell out the message “I Love You”;
..I moved into the apartment Last year.. Initially we passed from building to building.. Steve's feet ached so bad.. But he laughed at himself.. The Young lady also smiled.. He hugged and cuddled her..
The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck he or she will write them down and decode the secret message “I Love You” - Place an Advert on Your Partner's Favorite Blog, Site or Forum:
You can place an advertisement on your spouse's or lover's favorite website, blog or forum saying something like:
-
“ Dear Jamie,
With you by my side,
everyday feels like
Valentine’s Day.
Thank you for being you.
I ❤️ LOVE YOU!
- Shawn ” - Organize a Mystery Trip or Vacation:
You can organize a mystery trip or surprise vacation for you and your partner. Some travel agents can organize mystery packages where the destination of the trip or vacation is kept secret until you are actually on the plane or arrive at the destination to surprise your spouse or love partner. - Package a Surprise Gift on a Trip:
If your partner is traveling or going on a trip, package a small present into the corner of his or her travel suitcase or bag, and he or she will find out the surprise gift later. - Get a Domain in Your Partner's Name or Both:
You can buy a website domain in your partner's name or both if it is available, for example;
www . RommyLovesJully . com
Then create a web page containing a romantic poem or write-ups and a picture of a rose.
When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether he or she has ever checked to see whether his/her domain name exist or is taken. And let your partner type it in to discover the page. - Go for a Walk on a Beach:
You can go for a walk with your partner on your favorite beach and trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Then sit closely together inside the heart and cuddle your lover as you both watch the sun go down. - Leave a Stem Rose with a Note:
You can leave a long stem rose in a corner of your bedroom where your partner will find it with a note on it saying:
“ Thank YOU
for coming into
MY LIFE.” - Tenderly Stroke Your Partner's Hair:
If your spouse or lover has long a hair, take the time to brush it gently and tenderly using long slow strokes.
This is particularly effective after she has had a shower or when she is getting ready for bed. - Get a Customized Hand Mirror with a Romantic Note:
You can buy a stylish hand mirror with your partner's name etched on it. Then give it to your spouse or lover as a gift. Also include a romantic note card in the gift box saying:
“ In this Mirror,
You will see the
Image of the most
Beautiful Woman
in the world. ” - Engrave a Stone with a Love Message:
While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, you can pick up a smooth stone and say that you are going to keep it as a special memento of your trip. Later, have a message such as
“ I
LOVE
Joyce ”
engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner. - Visit the Swings in a Recreation Park:
If you are walking by a recreation park, you can visit the swings and give your love partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood. - Get Your Partner a Memorable and Thoughtful Gift:
Contact your partner's family or a childhood friend and ask if there was anything he or she always wanted when he or she was a little boy or girl. For example if your partner always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted. - Gift Your Partner a Favorite Book or Novel:
You can also speak to your partner's old friend or a family member and find out what his or her favorite book when he or she was a teen. Buy a copy of the book and read it to your partner in bed. - Give Your Partner a Warm Shower Wrap:
When your lady is having a shower or bath, take her towel and place it in the dryer to make it really warm and then wrap her up in it when she is done. - Read a Romantic Book Together:
You can buy a romantic book that you and your partner are both interested in reading. Read one chapter each night in bed with each of you taking turns to read out loud. This can be a great alternative to watching movies or television shows. - Surprise Your Partner with Lovely Flowers at Workplace:
Have romantic flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment. - Give Your Partner a Surprise Massage:
Anytime your partner is sitting at a table or desk, come up behind him or her and give a caressing back, shoulder or head massage. Then finish with a gentle and affectionate touch on the cheek. - Organize a Hot Air Ballooning Trip:
You can also organize a hot air ballooning trip as a special surprise. Most trips begin with a glass of champagne before you float over the countryside with your partner. - Organize a Backyard Picnic:
You can organize a romantic backyard picnic on a warm night. Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates, champagne or favorite drinks, and a music box. You can lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together. - Create a Romantic Spa Atmosphere:
When you have access to a spa, create a romantic atmosphere by placing some candles around the tub and some rose petals floating on the surface of the water. As your partner enjoys the water, serve champagne and chocolate covered strawberries before joining her. - Watch Sun Rise Together and Express Your Love:
When you and your partner are enjoying a restful time away, organize to wake up early one morning and go to a scenic spot to watch the sun rise and express your love. This may seem difficult but something, it is worth doing at least once in a blue moon. Seeing a new day being born is something really special to share with your partner. - Create a Love Message in Bathroom:
If you shower first in the morning, you can steam up the bathroom and write a message such as
“Harry
LOVES
Tiwa”
on the mirror for your partner to read when she uses the bathroom. This also works on car windows when it is cold. - Plant a Tree to Mark Your Anniversary:
You can buy a tree with your partner and plant it in a special spot. Each year on your anniversary, have a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk about how your love and the tree have grown. - Pay Attention to What Your Partner Likes:
Always listen for things that your partner reminisces about and jot them down somewhere. For example, perhaps she talks about the ice cream that she had from a particular shop when she was young. When a special occasion comes along, check your list of things that your partner talks about and try to recreate one of them, for example, visit the shop and buy a tub of ice cream making sure that the name of the shop is on the container. - Get Two Customized Champagne Glasses to Mark Your Anniversary:
When you and your partner are having an anniversary, buy two champagne glasses and get them engraved with your names and the date. Go to the restaurant where you have made your reservations and request that when you and your partner arrive that your champagne be served in your special glasses. This will be a great surprise for your partner and a wonderful keepsake for you both. - Hide Rose Petals with Love Message Behind Vehicle's Sun Visor:
You can buy some rose petals and place them behind the sun visor on the passenger side of your car. Take a post it note and write, “I Love You” on it and stick it to the back of the sun visor. As you are driving to a romantic destination, look at your partner and tell her she has a mark on her cheek. She will pull down the sun visor to use the mirror and be showered in rose petals and see your note. - A Romantic Love Message in Voicemail:
If your partner has voice mail at work or on his or her mobile phone, leave a message saying;
“ Just wanted to let
You know that I'm
thinking of YOU.”
Your partner will appreciate this anytime especially when he or she is going through a rough time or period. - "I thought of YOU today" Love Message:
You can also write a note saying
“ I thought of
YOU today, and
it made ME smile.”
Leave the note somewhere in your bedroom or shared space or room where your partner is sure to find it. - Organize a Professional Photo Shoot and Frame It:
You can organize a professional photo shoot and obtain a portrait of two of you as a couple. Frame the picture and put it somewhere prominent. Remember to make sure you give your partner plenty of notice so that she can get ready. - Buy a Gift for Your Partner's Pet:
If your partner has a pet that he or she adores, on valentine, in addition to buying a gift for your partner, buy a small present for his or her pet. - Run a Hot Bath for Your Partner After a Long Day:
When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom, gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with affectionate touch on the forehead and so on. - Go for a Romantic Walk in the Rain:
If it is raining really heavily, go for a walk with your partner and this maybe fun especially for young couples. Forget the umbrellas and the raincoats. Run through the streets together, jump in puddles and get totally saturated. Pick her up, twirl her around and cuddle her while the rain falls. Taste the water off her face, hold her close affectionately to your chest and make her feel loved. And when you get back home have a lovely hot shower together and then share a warm drink preferably in front of an open fire.
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